The Apple Doesn’t Fall Far from the Tree

But I am afraid that, as the serpent deceived Eve by his craftiness, your minds will be led astray from the simplicity and purity of devotion to Christ.  2 Corinthians 11:3

One of the most memorable professors I had in college was a middle-aged, never-married woman who had a fierce love affair with the English language. Every year she took a pilgrimage to Oxford, Mississippi, William Faulkner’s home. She returned animatedly to class describing tidbits of information concerning her favorite author. As a newly engaged 19-year-old, I was in love, but it certainly wasn’t with English, nor Faulkner. All I could think about was finishing college early and marrying my fiancé, who I was sure would fulfill my deepest longings for happily ever after.

We both loved Jesus, and looked forward to a life in vocational ministry. However, my devotion during that final year of college couldn’t be described as sincerely and purely given to Christ. We took as many classes together as possible, one of which was the Southern Literature class taught by the Faulkner-loving professor. We remarked how sad that her devotion to a long dead writer, given to run on phrases and strong liquor, seemed a substitute for relationship with a living person.

Fast forward a few years, and our own fairy tale was neck-deep in babies, bills, and bad attitudes. What started out as stars in our eyes became a meteor shower of hurt feelings and misunderstandings. My devotion to the idea of my husband meeting all my heart needs wore thin, as did his patience in dealing with a perfectionistic wife. Thankfully, God answered our desperate prayers for help, and we met some wise counselors who redirected our focus back to the only One Who truly fills the holes in our soul.

Like Eve, the first woman and mother of us all, our hearts are easily led astray when we look to anyone or anything other than Jesus to be our everything. Eve’s sin was in believing that God hadn’t already given her what she needed for life and godliness. The serpent seized the opportunity to appeal to Eve’s desires, which in themselves were not wrong. What was wrong was allowing those desires to replace God’s plan for fulfilling them and believing a lie.

As this new year begins, let’s allow Christ alone to capture our heart’s devotion. Let that apple fall far from the tree!

About the Writer:
Nan Haines is so grateful to belong to God’s people. She loves getting to know all kinds of people and enjoys discovering new places, which is a good thing since she’s moved twenty five times. She has been married to Jim, a pastor, for 34 years, and together they have four grown kids, a son in love, and three grand puppies.

 

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